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Monday, February 15, 2010

Tips For Dating - Men

Dating Tips for Men
Dating tips for men will help with online dating and more.

Dating can be frustrating for men—it's hard to figure out what women want! Our tips will make it clear how to act, what to wear, and what to say to attract—and keep—the attention of women who interest you. Behave like a gentleman and you'll find dating success. The mysteries of women can never be completely revealed, but we come as close as we can to help you find a woman you like, ask her out, and embark on a successful relationship. With the right approach and knowledge, communicating with a woman can be more than just a frustrating mystery!Finding a date is easy once you know how to do it! We'll give you top tips for creating successful online personal ads, as well as attracting attention in your every day life. Decide what you're looking for in a potential partner, learn how to ask someone out, and find out to behave on a first date (even a blind date!). These tips will help you find more dates than you ever dreamed of! And because we emphasize thinking about what you want in a date before asking someone out, your dates are much more likely to be successful in the long run!

Quick Dating Tips
How to Ask Someone Out on a Date

If you like some one you may have to ask them for a date. For men this is standard practise and for women, this process is becoming increasingly common. If you are thinking of asking someone on a date consider the following quick dating tips:

1. Why are you asking them out, is it for the right reasons and what do you expect as a result of them saying yes or no?
2. Be prepared that the person you ask may say no and in which case do not take the rejection personally.
3. When asking someone out choose your moment carefully and practise what you might say in advance so that you don't appear tongue-tied.
4. If the person you ask says yes, ensure you already have thought of a place, date and time for the date so that you display signs of thoughfulness.
5. Be prepared for the person asking why you want to date them so that you are able to flatter and create a sense of trust immediately. People can be wary and they may want to know some reasosn behind your request. Better, anticipate this by saying "would you like to come to dinner, I have always thought you are great fun..".
6. Make sure that your request for a date does not pressurize the person in any way. If they want to think about it, let them. But don't chase.
7. Make sure that when you ask someone on a date you smile and keep things fun and happy. Being confident and smiley will elicit a far more positive response.
8. Always have an alternative date and time or location in mind should the person be unsure of their diary. Giving a person a choice is often a marketing masterstroke.
9. If the person says no, don't chase for a reason, simply move on. They may think about things and get back to you with a yes response later.
10. If you ask someone on a date, make sure that you actually intend to go through with it. Standing people up is not allowed.
11. If you are being asked out don't play games. If you need time to consider the offer then say so. If you want to say no, say no. But do not keep someone hanging on for no reason. You wouldn't like the situation if it was reversed.
12. Try to avoid dutch-courage such as using alcohol to boost your courage levels as this will often backfire.
13. Don't ask someone out when they are in a group of friends. Timing is everything.

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